Our Marriage Dinner

We had 20 tables at Furama Hotel.

His Dad is working in Batam & seldom comes back to Singapore, I had to wait another month which was the 4th month of my pregnancy to wait for his dad to be back.. In the end, his father also didn't turn up to our wedding..

As a woman & pregnant, u could have gotten married when u were 3 months pregnant, (which wouldn't even show) or at 4 months which is the time u have started to gain weight?

His mum is VERY traditional & my family is very open.. whatever date we agreed on, the mother would say it casted out a person from the family, my mum was then kinda frustrated & said, 'this cheong that cheong, might as well dun get married'.. In the end, we decided on a date that 'Cheong' my mum which is Rat year..

'Remember' when she didn't even fork out a single cent!!

who gave us money to get married? Javen's brother's friend/colleague lent us 6k to book the hotel & take the wedding photos..

It was lucky that my total bill came out at 13k+ & my total angbao was 19k+.. so it definitely covered everything..

That's how I got married.

I deserve better than that

I didn't need to elaborate.. Just that incident will be able to say what kinda guy he is..

So, I taked it. I accepted it. Fate did it.

We got married more or less coz i was pregnant & I also came to a conclusion that he does love me.. And I really did love him too! for the sacrifices i've made & for those who know me, u guys noe best!

B4 we got married when i told him he had to let his mum know 1st, he called his mum on the hp coz he has always been staying with me & told her.. he passed the phone to me & u noe what the mum said after she told me about what i can't do during pregnancy? '你们要结婚我一分钱都不会出的，他哥哥结婚我也跟他将一样的东西’wtf?!!!

My Separation

Hi guys, i know many of u will want to know what's going on? why like tat? weren't u both doing well? Well, let me start from THE REAL START;





me & my husband got together when we both came out of prison, we both are changed peeps, we started hanging out with my good old brother allan & his girlfriend which is now his wife and divorced.. we were on tagging (Which means early release from prison & wearing something like a watch on your leg) like the photo.. allan is on the left & my husband (Javen Tan) on the right
My husband and I are kinda heavy drinkers.. we need to drink every night, but he tends to be VERY verbally abusive to me when he drinks..

I did a very wrong mistake was when we both were at a pub after work one day, b4 we got married and stuff, i was walking to the toilet & a group of guys just turned to look at me, not talk to me or anything like tat.. when i returned to my seat, he asked me if i knew who they were & i said no, he then asked me why they looked at me, i said i had no idea.. further on, when I was smoking outside, he played pool with one of them & guess wat? it became a quarrel & they all came outside to kinda 'fight'.. 5 of them were against him alone.. they fought & as a natural reaction of a woman, i pulled one of them back & said can you guys stop fighting.. Javen, stopped the fight & pulled me to a corner & shouted to my face RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE OF BOAT QUAY, 'u fucking prostitute u like people to touch u arh'?

Booom!

That was it.

I walked away & let him continue his fucking fight.. but i called his friends to ask them to assist him..


The next day,

he called me NOT to apologise but explain his reactions as he didn't want me to get involved or hurt in the fight & that was the only thing he could have said to make me go..

HELLO~!!!!! I DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT!!!